Is it always good to be ‘easy to work with’?

At some point in their working career many people will have been told that they’re easy to work with. But while it’s nice to know that people like you and enjoy working with you, is it always a good thing? Does it mean that your ideas and opinions aren’t being listened to or even that you’re setting yourself up for increased levels of stress and ultimately burnout?

When someone is easy to work with, it generally means they collaborate well with others, communicate effectively, and contribute to a positive and productive work environment. They might be seen as someone who is always positive. Someone who always says yes when asked for help, someone who has a can-do attitude and is always there when needed. But whilst being helpful and attentive can go a long way in an organisation, they’re not always traits employees need to be good at their job. And some of these traits can be linked to increased levels of stress and burnout.

Employees who are overly easy-going may find it challenging to set and enforce boundaries leading to an imbalance in workload and a diminished work/life balance. Managers or teammates may delegate more tasks them, give them more than their share of responsibilities and expect them to go above and beyond - often without proper recognition or compensation! In environments that value assertiveness, being too easy-going might impact career advancement if others are taking advantage of them and their contribution.

Constantly prioritising the needs of others can negatively impact personal well-being and lead to stress and burnout so it's important to strike a balance between collaboration and taking care of oneself. Being easy to work with doesn’t mean being a pushover or compromising principles. It involves being collaborative, communicative, and adaptable while maintaining a sense of professionalism and integrity.